Pride and Humility

How can one identify true humility and false humility built on a foundation of pride? Is humility an essence of being or something that is developed? How is it possible to "be" humble while striving to develop humility?

God instructs us to humble ourselves. As we do, He promise that He will lift us up. But, who has not seen the professional athlete filled with pride and he seemingly is elevated on pinnacles of adoration around the world. Did a humble spirit place him there? God says that pride comes before a fall and a haughty spirit is present just before a tumble.

What is the picture of God's elevation in response to the development of a humble spirit? Is it Joseph sitting in prison because of lies? Would it be Daniel refusing to eat the king's meat and doing better than those who imbibed? Is the picture one of David being pursued by his father-in-law, or David after Bathsheba... Moses on the mount or Moses striking the rock a second time... The publican glancing at the poor wretch in the corner of the temple or the sinner smiting his chest?

God has declared that ONLY by pride comes contention. That word "only" is an exclusive thought. It is the one and only way contention happens - pride. I wonder if those who are contending would humble their heart, seek His face, and turn from their wicked ways, I wonder what would happen. Would they hear from God or would He remain silent / distant / separate?

Thanks for sitting in the corner with me today.